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The loneliness trap: it is as bad as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. So will it shorten my lifespan?
I don’t spend a lot of time worrying about a lonely old age. Closing in on my 61st birthday, eight years into a very happy marriage, I’ve got a wife, two teenage stepkids, an older daughter by an ex, a grandson and four siblings. Most of them at least …